Blind date: ‘I should have made a move, but I’m not good at that sort of thing’

A New Encounter: Two Strangers Find Connection Over Dinner

Blind date - The Guardian's beloved Saturday dating column continues its tradition of pairing strangers for an evening of conversation and potential romance. Since 2009, this feature has brought together individuals from all walks of life, capturing their genuine reactions and building connections through honest dialogue. This week's edition features Abigo and Suli, who met at Gaucho restaurant in Manchester for what would become a memorable evening.

Suli's Perspective: A Pleasant Surprise

When asked what he hoped to find, Suli explained his desire to connect with someone he felt at ease with and could converse with naturally. His expectations were met when Abigo arrived—she struck him as humorous and self-assured from the very beginning.

What did you talk about? Quite a lot: our creative sides, working in retail, mental health, family dynamics …

The conversation flowed effortlessly between them. Suli found himself particularly impressed by Abigo's table manners, noting he had no complaints whatsoever. When reflecting on what stood out most about his date, he struggled to single out just one quality.

Best thing about Abigo? I don't think I can name just one: she was charming, confident, funny, intelligent, beautiful.

After dinner, they decided to extend their time together by visiting a nearby park for additional conversation. However, Abigo had an early train to catch the following morning, which meant their evening couldn't stretch too far. When it came time to part ways, they shared a kiss on the cheek—a gesture Suli considered meaningful.

And … did you kiss? On the cheek, if that counts.

Looking back on the evening, Suli identified one thing he would change: he wished he had been more forward in his romantic intentions.

If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be? I should have made a move, but I'm not good at that sort of thing. Otherwise it was a perfectly pleasant experience.

He awarded the date a solid 9 out of 10 and confirmed they are planning to visit the cinema together soon. When asked to describe Abigo in three words, he chose: feminist, influential, and a diva. He also noted that her friends would likely welcome her warmly, as they share similar wavelengths.

Abigo's View: Genuine Connection

Abigo arrived with hopes of meeting someone nice, interesting, and someone who appreciated good food. Her first impressions of Suli were overwhelmingly positive—she found him super friendly and genuine, though she couldn't quite determine whether his quiet demeanor stemmed from nervousness or his natural personality.

First impressions? Super friendly and genuine. Couldn't tell if he was nervous or just naturally a little reserved. He was dressed very well and was super polite.

Their conversation covered an impressive range of topics: mental health, dream careers, school experiences, shoplifting stories, music, and literally everything else. Abigo admitted she experienced what she called "word vomit" during their chat.

The most awkward moment came when Suli mentioned he had another date scheduled soon. Rather than feeling put off, Abigo found his honesty endearing.

Most awkward moment? He mentioned he has another date coming up. I could tell he felt awkward about being that honest, but I genuinely don't think he knows how to lie or withhold information. It's kind of cute.

Table manners received high praise, particularly when they exchanged bites of steak. Abigo's favorite quality about Suli was how easy he was to talk to—his genuine nature and down-to-earth attitude created a calming presence. She told him this within just two minutes of meeting.

Best thing about Suli? He's so easy to talk to, genuine and very down to earth. He has a very calming presence. And kind eyes. I told him that two minutes in.

They also sat in a park to continue their conversation, though no kiss was exchanged this time. When reflecting on what she would change, Abigo wished they had gone somewhere after dinner.

If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be? I would have liked to have gone on somewhere afterwards.

She gave the evening a perfect 10 out of 10 and confirmed she would definitely meet again. Describing Suli in three words, she chose: genuine, charming, and layered. She also noted that he perceived her as chatty, confident, and medicated.

How to Participate

Interested in finding your own romantic connection? The column asks participants about their age, location, occupation, hobbies, interests, and the type of person they seek. While you cannot choose your match directly, providing detailed information about your preferences helps create better pairings.

Participants cannot select their photograph, but the editorial team chooses the most flattering images. Only your first name, job, and age will appear publicly. Answers should be honest yet respectful, keeping in mind that the column reaches a wide audience both in print and online.

The column does not reveal the other person's answers, though edits may be made for length and clarity. While it cannot guarantee finding "The One," the team certainly tries—marriage and babies are always possibilities!

Applicants must be located in the UK, though London is not the only option. Many people from across the country participate. To apply, simply email blind.date@theguardian.com.

Every Saturday, new stories emerge from this beloved tradition, offering readers a window into genuine human connection and the beautiful unpredictability of love.